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Phil of Surprises's avatar

I agree fully that understanding nuance is one thing many people won't (or possibly can't) do. A related (but slightly different) version of this is "accepting that tradeoff relationships exist". I can't even get to this point with certain friends, let alone them *weighing* a given tradeoff relationship.

Had a discussion with one of these friends about remote schooling during COVID. He was certain the health reasons for enacting such policies were important. Independently, he agreed these policies had negative effects on various things.

He could not weigh these two together.

Instead, he picked the issue he cared about more (health concerns) and dismissed everything else. Around and around we went, for 3 hours, and he refused to perform this slightly uncomfortable, but entirely necessary, mental exercise.

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It’s not that Jeff sucks, it’s that he’s elevated mediocrity into high art.

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